Traditionally, my family meets the Sunday before Memorial Day and we go to a number of cemeteries and gravesites together. This year it was raining (again), so Chris and I kept the kids home and visited the Kaysville cemetery on our own, later on that week. I hate this time of year. I'm thankful that my family understands how hard it is to go to my dad's grave. They are very respectful and we always go to his gravesite alone.